bugsy running on lone rock beach with the airstream and f-150 in the background

Bugsy

This post was written by Bugsy’s #1 favorite person, her dad.

Bugsy on her bed on our picnic table at Nolichucky Gorge Campground
Bugsy R, 2013(?) – May 3, 2025; photo taken September 2023 in Erwin, TN

It was January 2015 and we weren’t particularly in the market for a dog. One of L’s colleagues who volunteers at the local SPCA convinced us (her) to go meet a large pit bull named Bon Jovi who had been at the pound for almost a year and whom everyone there loved. Bon Jovi was sweet but just too much dog for our office-working, condo-dwelling lives. L convinced me to at least walk around while we were there; I was ready to go by the time we got to the small dog / puppy area where L locked eyes with sweet, scrawny Bugsy.

She had the cutest face and big brown eyes that would just stare into yours. And, when you called her she lowered her head and paced toward you while her entire butt seemed to wag in excitement. Later in life, she would sort of do the same thing with her head, having developed a smarl when one of us came home that showed her inability to contain her excitement. We decided to sleep on it before committing to bring her home, but we both knew she had become our girl.

Bugsy went by Cleopatra at the pound, thus named because of her long neck. Her neck looked so long, in part, because she was near starving. She was picked up in an especially-cold January in a rural part of our central Virginia city, just on the edge of town, weighing only 29 pounds despite being probably two and a half to three years old. When we eventually got her to a healthy weight, she was about 50 lbs.

Bugsy was scared of just about everything when we brought her home – people, any strange noise, and especially children. And, she was vocal, either barking when she was scared or excited (or happy, etc, etc) or making random funny dog noises when wrestling or trying to get us to play. We eventually got her to be comfortable around children and our friends and even pretty comfortable around strangers (but never railroad crossing bells), but the vocalness never left her. 

Because of her anxiety, we were nervous to bring her on our first Airstream trip. But, she seemed to love the travel (or, at least, the togetherness) and all of the time outside. By the end she got to see and smell so much of the world – all 48 states in the continental US, plus Canada, and at least wet her feet in the Rio Grande.

She loved to hike and was great off leash – almost all of the time. She also absolutely loved to fetch and to swim. Despite this, we were shocked to learn from the DNA test that she was 25% Labrador (the remainder boxer (50%) and mutt), in part because of her small size. She also absolutely loved people – her people, that is, both us and her friends. Despite our conviction we would never allow it, she slept on our bed, usually in the crook of Lauren’s leg until morning when she could sense I was starting to wake up; then she would either army-crawl up to snuggle or scratch at the covers to be let underneath. She was just the sweetest girl.

We’ve just been trying to focus on the fact that she died doing what she loved, collapsing on the beach after retrieving her favorite toy one last time. She tried to hang on, but didn’t survive the sprint to the vet.

Anyway, some happier times for her and us…

Bugsy puppy on her first day home
Still a bit nervous – and malnourished – with her mom the day we brought her home from the SPCA, January 2015
Bugsy posing with a biscuit on her head
We quickly found that she was excellent at posing for pictures. April 2015
Bugsy resting on her stuffed animal
Relaxing while keeping track of her toy, October 2016
Bugsy and her water toy on the dock
Hanging out by the water with her favorite toy, March 2017
Bugsy and L synchronized sleeping
Bugsy and her mom sleeping in on the Airstream, January 2018
Bugsy hiking in Idaho
One of her many hikes out west, Idaho, September 2020
Bugsy day celebratory cheeseburger
Celebrating Bugsy Day! The sixth anniversary of bringing her home, January 2021
Bugsy sunbathing on the airstream
Sunbathing in bed on the Airstream in Austin, January 2021
Bugsy sleeping on my pillows
Bugsy making herself comfortable with her mother’s pillows, February 2025
bugsy with angel wings in Fargo
Fargo, September 2020

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12 responses to “Bugsy”

  1. Deb Avatar
    Deb

    Bugsy was the BEST !
    So sorry to hear of her passing.

    1. bugsy Avatar

      Thank you so much Deb. She really was the absolute best!

  2. Elizabeth Sheeran Avatar
    Elizabeth Sheeran

    What a beautiful eulogy…it is obvious she was much loved. And, not only by you two. She had so many other humans who loved her too. She was such a sweet girl and, while she was beginning to show her years, she was gone to soon. All my love to you and Lauren.

    1. bugsy Avatar

      Thanks Liz, she loved you too!

  3. Stephen Avatar

    Oh no, I’m so sorry. That’s such awful news. I’m sad that we never got to meet her, but I’m glad that she got to have such an amazing life and experienced so much; you both made up for her bad start in life to provide a fantastic time over the 10 years you had her.

    Truffles also thanks her for helping us find so many pet-friendly activities on our own travels. Even though they never met, Bugsy helped Truffles have even more adventures than we would’ve discovered on our own.

    1. bugsy Avatar

      Thank you Stephen. Please give Truffles extra scratches from us!

  4. Elizabeth Avatar
    Elizabeth

    I’m so sorry you lost your sweet girl. What a great life she lived thanks to you!

    1. bugsy Avatar

      Thanks so much EW <3

  5. Dana Avatar
    Dana

    Wow, you perfectly captured her personality and rich life. All three of you were so lucky to find one another!

  6. Donna Strother Avatar
    Donna Strother

    I just started following y’all today because of a post about Franklin, NC and I’m about to cry hearing about Bugsy. I’m so sorry for your loss.

    1. bugsy Avatar

      And I’m about to cry reading your comment. Thank you, Donna!

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